Welcome to another edition of AR Wanderings. I write blogs on interesting topics such as Self-Growth, Relationships, Entrepreneurship, Self-Realization, etc. Today's topic listed below:
We all are engaged in different types of relationships throughout our life. As maturity hits us, we grow. We make several relationships, while, we also get out of certain toxic ones (of any kind). This is Life.
We make mistakes. We learn.
We achieve. We lose.
We get angry. We get calm.
We go through continuous UPS and DOWNS.
In this journey of life, RELATIONSHIPS play a significant role.
The most important thing that I have discovered in all of my relationships is an interesting Equation.
And I would love to share that equation with you all. Hope that gives you some sort of awareness in your life :)
So here is the equation that I have discovered from all my relationships:
Now what you can see in this image is two columns right?
Okay.
So what the image implicates is that all of our relationships have two possibilities:
1. The person with whom (anybody) you are in the relationship, will always stay by your side in life. Percentage - 99%
2. The person with whom (anybody) you are in the relationship, might leave you at any point of time/say in your bad times in life.
Percentage - 1%
Now, what happens is, we get too much happy and excited about the first possibility in our life. And that's absolutely OKAY.
Now, what's not OKAY is, that we tend to ignore and neglect the second possibility completely. We say in our mind that " The probability of happening that is very LOW, so it's better to ignore. "
It happens with almost everyone of us.
And somehow, if the second possibility occurs in our life, we get completely broken at that time! And that's TRUE.
That completely breaks us EMOTIONALLY & PSYCHOLOGICALLY.
Because our expectations would get murdered completely.
Now this is the problem!
But what's the solution to this ?
Yes there is a solution!
There is a ray of hope in the ocean of uncertainties.
The solution is very simple:
BE AWARE OF THE SECOND POSSIBILITY.
Just imagine the worst case scenario and make your mind free from overthinking.
It's very good that a person will be with you forever (99%) in your life. Be happy definitely.
Yet, don't be ignorant of the fact that the person can also leave you at some point of time in your life.
It's the best way to get rid of all the expectations.
Be aware. Be happy in your relationships!
I hope you got to know something interesting today :)
Wish you a happy success in all your relationships.
Give efforts. Make your relationship prosper. Grow together :)
See you tomorrow!
Goodbye.
DO WELL, FEEL HAPPY
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